You Made Mistakes With Your Adult Child, What Do You Do Now?

If you’ve made mistakes with your adult child, taking responsibility matters. But what happens when accountability turns into fear? You may start walking on eggshells, agreeing to things you aren’t comfortable with, or becoming afraid that one wrong move could cost you the relationship. In this video, I talk about four places parents can get stuck after recognizing their mistakes, including what happens when you and your adult child remember the past differently, when rebuilding trust seems to require proving yourself indefinitely, when therapy becomes a condition without a clear goal, and when you’re afraid to have boundaries because the relationship already feels fragile. Taking responsibility for your part doesn’t mean giving up your voice. And making mistakes doesn’t mean you lose the right to have boundaries. Whether you’re in contact, have very little contact, or are currently estranged from your adult child, this conversation can help you think more clearly about accountability, boundaries, and what healthy repair can realistically require. If these conversations feel risky and you’re struggling with what to say, you can learn more about When Words Feel Risky here: https://morinholistictherapy.com/product/when-words-feel-risky/ Subscribe for weekly conversations about estrangement, difficult relationships, communication, and moving forward with more clarity, steadiness, and self-trust. If you're looking for additional support, you can learn more about working with me here: https://morinholistictherapy.com Read the blog: https://morinholistictherapy.com/mistakes-with-your-adult-child/ Listen to my podcast, Caught Between a Family and a Hard Place: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6XYOK5NEPJbyrw0hWeXmUM?si=rF7-LcgTRpCVCRhB3JoX7w Have a Question? If you have a question you'd like me to answer in a future episode of Caught Between a Family and a Hard Place, I'd love to hear from you. Whether your question is about family estrangement, difficult conversations, boundaries, grief, or another challenging relationship, you can submit it through my website. Many of these podcast conversations begin with thoughtful questions from listeners just like you. 🔗Email me at mariemorin@morinholistictherapy.com 📖 Free eBook: https://morinholistictherapy.com/findjoy/ 🌐 My Website: https://morinholistictherapy.com/ 📚 My Book – Belonging: Secrets to Soothe the Soul: https://morinholistictherapy.com/my-book/ 📚 Books I Recommend: https://morinholistictherapy.com/resources/ 📱 Follow Me on Social Media: 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mmorinholistictherapy 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mmorinholistictherapy/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/morinholistictherapy Intro and Outro music by Joseph Morin #estrangement #morinholistictherapy #toxic #parenting #relationships #familyrecov#estrangement #adultchildren #adultdaughter #parentingadults #momsofadults #worthymom #rejectedparents #worthiness #adultson #dysfunctionalfamily #adultkids #rejected #angry #strugglewithmyadultchild #daughterinlaw #soninlaw #adultstepkids #love #trauma #divorce #estranged #mentalhealth #toxicfamily #estrangedparentsandadultchildren #grief #loss #healing #estrangementawareness #family #emotionalabuseery #cutoff #breakingthestigma #youtube #mentalhealth #mentalhealthsupport #selfcare #parentalalienation #parenting #sectrets #transparency #mentalillness #addiction #therapy #therapists #grief #politics #futureproofing estrangement #inlawproblems #familydrama #adultchildren #parentingadultchildre Disclaimer: This channel is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy or a therapist-client relationship. If you are in crisis, please reach out to your local crisis hotline. The content shared here is general and may not be relevant to your specific situation. This information is for individuals coping with estrangement and does not apply to those who have experienced abuse. If you've faced abuse, prioritize your safety and seek professional help immediately. Consult specialists for proper guidance on abuse-related issues. Your well-being is our priority, and support is available. Morin Holistic Therapy is also a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com. *Amazon and the Amazon logo are trademarks of Amazon.com, Inc., or its affiliates. #difficultconversations #emotionalregulation #familyestrangement #relationships #communicationskills #overthinking #emotionalsafety #healingrelationships #nervoussystem #mentalhealth #relationshipadvice #emotionalmaturity #familydynamics #selfawareness #traumaresponses