Adam Grant Knows Why You Don't Vibe With Everyone (& How To Fix It)

Adam Grant is an organizational psychologist at Wharton, a bestselling author, and the host of Re:Thinking. We discuss his new book, “Vibe,” why compatibility is built rather than found, how to fight constructively, reconnecting with old friends, and more. READ MORE👉🏼http://bit.ly/richroll1026 ✌🏼🌱 – Rich This Episode Is Brought To You By… Squarespace: Use code RichRoll to save 50% off👉🏼https://bit.ly/squarespace2025 Airbnb: Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much👉🏼https://bit.ly/rrpairbnb2024 Freaks of Nature: Save 20% with code RICHROLL👉🏼https://bit.ly/FreaksofNatureRRP Seed: Use code RICHROLL25 for 25% off your first order of DS-01®👉🏼https://bit.ly/seedxrrp2025 Kohler Health: Get 10% off Dekoda with code RICHROLL10👉🏼https://bit.ly/KohlerRRP Check out all of the amazing discounts from our Sponsors👉🏼https://www.richroll.com/sponsors LISTEN / SUBSCRIBE TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/rrpitunes Spotify: http://bit.ly/rrpspotify Google: http://bit.ly/rrpgooglepods Meal Planner: http://meals.richroll.com Voicing Change Book: http://richroll.com/vc Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/RichRollPodcastClips Newsletter: https://richroll.com/subscribe/ CHAPTERS 00:00:00 Intro 00:01:18 Origin of Vibe and its connection to Think Again 00:02:21 Adam’s personal history and definition of a vibe 00:04:23 Jennifer Garner and the LA event 00:06:46 Creating a vibe in the interview 00:10:16 Loneliness, aloneness, and modern isolation 00:15:06 Friendship categories: associates, allies, pals, and companions 00:18:30 Finding activity-based friendships 00:20:45 Ad Sponsor Break 00:24:33 Shared physical activity and connection 00:27:04 Digital connections and brief interactions 00:28:48 First impressions and personality in different contexts 00:35:37 Accepting differences while setting boundaries 00:42:53 Ad Sponsor Break 00:45:51 Constructive disagreement and relationship repair 00:52:01 Adam and Brené Brown’s conflict and reconciliation 00:58:14 Blind spots, escalation, and Solomon’s Paradox 01:04:53 Navigating ambivalent relationships 01:08:28 Small nudges that help people connect 01:10:50 Reconnecting with old friends 01:16:51 Building connection amid major conflicts 01:22:48 Helping young people make friends 01:24:49 Closing and defining their relationship CONNECT WITH RICH ✩ Website - http://richroll.com​ ✩ Rich Roll Podcast - https://richroll.com/all-episodes/ ✩ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richroll/ ✩ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/richrollfans ✩ Strava - https://www.strava.com/athletes/14443?oq=rich ✩ Memoir: Finding Ultra - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/finding-ultra/ ✩ Meals - http://meals.richroll.com​ ✩ Cook - The Plantpower Way - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-signed/ ✩ Italian! - The Plantpower Way: Italia - https://www.richroll.com/shop/books/the-plantpower-way-italia-signed/ Thanks To The Team: Tyler Piatt, Dan Drake, Morgan McRae, Blake Curtis, Desmond Loh * * * * * NEW TO RICH? Hi I'm Rich Roll. I'm a vegan ultra-endurance athlete, author, podcaster, public speaker & wellness evangelist. But mainly I'm a dad of four. If you want to know more, visit my website or check out these two the NY Times articles: http://bit.ly/otillonyt http://bit.ly/vegansglam #richroll #richrollpodcast