Why Every Non-Duality Speaker Is Lying (w/Kat Van Oudheusden)

True lies such as self-help is hopeless, "servant leadership" can be anything but, and spiritual bypass IS THE WHOLE POINT 🔥 The innocent, impersonal simplicity of THIS. Kat Van Oudheusden's books, free Zoom meetings, and more: https://katoudheusden.com/ Video archive, audio podcast, music, Supporter Tribe membership, email & more: https://lnk.bio/zdoggmd Support us with a 1-time donation: https://paypal.me/zdoggmd More about Dr. Z: https://zdoggmd.com/about-z 0:00 Welcome and meeting Kat Van Oudheusden 0:46 Why the personal story is "nonsense making" 4:18 The two extremes of non-duality and a third way 6:02 Self-inquiry and the selfing mechanism short circuiting itself 12:02 Six aspects of no self and the essential inquiries 17:57 If there is no doer, is "stop seeking" even coherent? 22:58 We're all liars: no one can speak the truth about this 24:34 Why judging other versions of non-duality misses the point 27:20 Everything is impersonal 30:16 Recognition vs lived experience 33:05 A body that isn't owned and the non-dual identity 37:26 Useful lies: Rupert Spira, Tony Parsons and radical non-duality 38:53 The essence of inquiry and breadcrumbs 42:33 Spiritual ego, $10,000 retreats and being human 45:42 Donald Hoffman and the collapse of belief 47:46 End-stage seekers and the seahorse 53:47 Why nobody wants the impersonal (morality and the unworthiness reactor) 57:01 No mystical experiences, no training wheels 58:55 Non-duality as the next lingo 1:03:20 The end of hope 1:05:56 Innocent and impersonal 1:07:50 Selfless leadership 1:13:52 Shadow work and digging through the trash 1:16:39 Isn't all of this just bypassing? 1:19:19 Kat's name, Thailand and part two