For Anyone Who Feels Unlucky in Love

YouTube description Most people trying to manifest love are quietly doing the things that push it away. In this clip, Jay Shetty argues that you don't attract the relationship you want, you attract the relationship you're ready to participate in. Vision boards and lists won't do it. Your nervous system, your identity, and your calendar will. Jay breaks down why chaos can feel like chemistry, why the story you tell about your love life keeps proving itself true, and the reason you should never go dating hungry. Learn about the four things to focus on if you want to find love this year, and why the person who makes you feel safe matters more than the one who makes you feel wanted. JAY'S DAILY WISDOM DELIVERED STRAIGHT TO YOUR INBOX Join 900,000+ readers discovering how small daily shifts create big life change with my free newsletter. Subscribe https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe Chapters 0:00 — Why most people push love away 1:37 — Principle one: emotional availability 2:23 — Secure vs. insecure behaviour 3:31 — The four women who wanted love and weren't dating 4:51 — Principle two: identity shapes attraction 7:04 — Shifting from intention to identity 8:31 — Principle three: proximity and probability 10:46 — Never go dating when you're starving 11:58 — Principle four: nervous system compatibility 14:10 — Principle five: standards vs. defenses 17:41 — When you're looking for a project, not a partner 18:12 — Four things to focus on this year Watch the FULL episode on Netflix & Spotify 🎙️ Netflix - https://jayshettypodcast.com/Netflix Spotify - https://jayshettypodcast.com/Spotify Full Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oky-negk7sE