How to Become the Person Your Adult Child Wants to Reconnect With

If you’re feeling ready for support and want to learn more about working together, I invite you to start with a short application. From there, you’ll receive next steps to book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation. Start here: https://www.sally-harris.com/H2Happ If your adult child came back into your life today, who would they find? When you’re estranged from your adult son or daughter, it’s easy to spend so much time wondering when they’ll come back, whether they’ll understand your heart, or if they’ll ever notice how much you’ve changed. But there’s another question that may be even more important: Who are you becoming while you wait? In this episode of The Sally Harris Show, I’m talking about the work we can do as moms during estrangement—not to manipulate our adult children into reconnecting, but to become healthier, stronger versions of ourselves. We’ll talk about why rebuilding a relationship takes time, what happens when both you and your adult child have changed during the separation, and why reconciliation may feel unfamiliar at first. I also share part of my own reconciliation story and the moment I realized my daughter could hear the change in me before we were even seeing each other again. I was communicating differently. I wasn't giving all of my opinions or making the conversation about me. I was becoming curious about who she was and what her life looked like. And that's what I want you to remember: the work you're doing now matters. Your healing, growth, faith, and the woman you're becoming are not wasted—even if your adult child isn't acknowledging those changes yet. 💗 READY FOR PERSONAL SUPPORT? If you're tired of trying to figure out this relationship on your own, apply for a Heart-to-Heart Consultation with me. We'll talk about what's happening with your adult child, where you're feeling stuck, and what kind of coaching support may be the best next step for you. 👉 Heart-to-Heart Consultation: https://www.sally-harris.com/H2Happ Not ready for a consultation yet? Take my free EmpowerMom Quiz to get a better understanding of where you are in your journey and what kind of support may be helpful for you. 👉 Take the EmpowerMom Quiz: www.sally-harris.com/EmpowerMom Subscribe for more conversations about adult child estrangement, healing, faith, boundaries, reconciliation, and becoming the woman you want to be when that door opens again. 00:00 Who Are You Becoming During Estrangement? 01:35 Reconnecting Doesn’t Mean Everything Is Fixed 03:10 Focus on the Person You’re Becoming 04:25 Will Your Adult Child Notice You’ve Changed? 06:05 The Changes My Daughter Noticed in Me 07:25 Your Growth Is Not Just for Your Adult Child 09:05 Keep Becoming, Even If They Don’t Acknowledge It READY TO TAKE YOUR FIRST STEP? Apply for a consultation.👇 HEART-TO HEART CONSULT- https://www.sally-harris.com/H2Happ LEARN MORE ABOUT MY “FROM STRUGGLE TO STRENGTH COURSE 👇 https://www.sally-harris.com/self-study Check out my NEWEST blog posts 👇 https://www.sally-harris.com/blog Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! What part of this video resonated with you the most? Comment below! 👇 SUBSCRIBE TO SALLY’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👇 www.youtube.com/@sallyharriscoach Free Guides Available to You: https://www.sally-harris.com/free-guides Mini Courses: https://www.sally-harris.com/mini-courses ▶︎ Breaking the Chains of Mom Guilt: Your Path to Reclaiming Peace (Mini Course Available) ▶︎ Do You Want To Stop the Toxicity With Your Adult Child? (Mini Course Available) ▶︎ Self Care GPS Action Plan (Mini Course Available) → → → CONNECT WITH SALLY HARRIS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ← ▶︎ INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/sallyharriscoach/?hl=en ▶︎ FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/coachsallyharris ▶︎ WEBSITE | https://www.sally-harris.com #SallyHarrisMomsofEstrangedAdultKidExpert #estrangement #EstrangedAdultChildren #AdultChildEstrangement #EstrangedParents #FamilyEstrangement #EstrangedMothers