Don't Chase Them! The Surprising Way Your Energy is Pushing Them Away | Dating Advice
You don’t think you’re chasing them, yet you are. Here’s how your obsessive thoughts are working against you, and what you need to do to attract them back into your life. Sometimes, without even intending to, our energy is pushing them away. This is because our obsessive thoughts create a repelling energy that unconsciously drives others away. When we fixate on someone, that intensity, even if unspoken, can be felt. This type of energy creates resistance. It makes the other person pull back, even if they aren't fully aware of why. Instead of attracting the connection you want, your thoughts are broadcasting desperation, fear, and neediness—energies that don’t align with the openness and ease needed for love to flow naturally. 1. Why Chasing Repels 2. Unconscious Obsessive Thoughts 3. Attracting Them Again --- Work with Me: https://susanwinter.net/consultation/ The Dating Games Guide: https://susanwinter.retrieve.com/store/#/ The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: https://susanwinter.retrieve.com/store/#/bundles/older-women-and-younger-men-bundle Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible: http://www.audible.com/pd/Self-Development/Breakup-Triage-Audiobook/B01KOTL014/ref=a_search_c4_1_1_srImg?qid=1474051066&sr=1-1 Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Breakup-Triage-Cure-Heartache/dp/B01KOTN5AI Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life- Book and Audiobook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1479176087
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