The Dark Side of a Covert Narcissist: 10 Red Flags You Might Miss

In this video, I’m breaking down 10 specific toxic behaviors commonly seen in relationships with female covert narcissists. These behaviors are often subtle, manipulative, and easy to dismiss—especially if you’ve experienced toxic dynamics in the past. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a confusing, emotionally draining relationship—or you’re trying to avoid falling into the same pattern again—this video will help you recognize red flags early and protect yourself from further harm. Understanding what’s toxic (and what’s not) is the first step toward breaking the cycle. When you can clearly identify these behaviors, you’re far less likely to tolerate them, justify them, or stay in a relationship that slowly wears you down. Whether you’re in it now or still healing from it, this insight can help you move toward healthier, safer connections. Timestamps: Introduction (0:00) 1: Using Crises to Control (0:18) 2: Hidden Motives / Partial Truths (1:22) 3: Saying She’s a Super Empath (2:14) 4: Gossip & Triangulation (3:33) 5: Entitlement (4:27) 6: Disguised Criticism (5:38) 7: Inability to Take Feedback (6:28) 8: Conditional Affection (7:19) 9: The Double-Bind (8:16) 10: The Fixer’s Trap (8:35) Free guide, the Trauma Bond Breaker: https://www.liseleblanc.com/opt-in Get instant access to the Toxic Relationship Recovery Program: https://www.liseleblanc.com/toxic-relationship-recovery Focused courses on rumination, boundaries and breaking the trauma bond: https://www.liseleblanc.com/course Join the Unbreakable Inner Circle: https://www.liseleblanc.com/inner-circle Private coaching with Lise: https://www.liseleblanc.com/coaching SUBSCRIBE for new videos every Monday and hit the bell so you don't miss anything. I would so greatly appreciate it. 💜 Have a topic you want me to cover? Tell me in the comments. I take your requests seriously! About Lise Leblanc Lise Leblanc is an author, educator, and trauma recovery coach with over 25 years of experience. She has helped thousands of men break free from toxic and narcissistic relationships. Through her books, courses, and YouTube channel, Lise helps men understand trauma bonds, rebuild confidence, and create healthy relationships. 🌿 Learn more at https://www.liseleblanc.com Follow Lise Leblanc: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/liseleblanc.ca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/liseleblanc_official/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lise-leblanc-85119444/ DISCLAIMER: The information in this video is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Lise Leblanc does not provide personalized psychological, health, or legal advice. Any information or responses provided on YouTube are general and hypothetical, not individualized. This content is for informational purposes only, and viewers should verify primary sources and/or seek professional services. Stories about clients are heavily modified to protect their identities and teach without revealing confidential information. If you are thinking about harming yourself, get help right away: In the U.S. or Canada, call or text 988 (Suicide Crisis Helpline). Anywhere else, call your local emergency number. Call your mental health provider, doctor or other health care provider. Reach out to a loved one or trusted friend. #narcissist #traumabond #narcissisticabuse #covertnarcissist #narcissism #NPD #femalenarcissist