LOVE Is True UNDERSTANDING of the Self! - Dr. Shefali Live Motivation

Dr. Shefali 💡Conscious Parent 🧠Clinical Psychologist 📖 Bestselling Author 🎤 Public Speaker ⬇️ Links to all my offerings linktr.ee/drshefali Follow her at: https://www.instagram.com/doctorshefali/ First 5 Minutes of Automated Transcript: 00:02 hi everyone 00:03 book club number 41 a radical awakening 00:08 i'm going to do these book clubs still 00:10 number probably 00:11 52 uh because they're 52 weeks in the 00:15 year so 00:16 we've got another 12 to go and then i 00:18 will be on to 00:19 new projects so 12 more book clubs to go 00:24 we are now at 41. so 00:27 11 more to go and i'm going to talk 00:30 about love today 00:32 and self-love other love the meaning of 00:34 love 00:35 i talk about it a lot in this book uh if 00:39 you've read it 00:39 tell us how you're feeling about it 00:42 share with us your big ahas 00:45 and halima has just bought the book 00:48 can't wait to read it can't wait to have 00:49 you read it either 00:52 this is book club number 41 zarina 00:55 time does fly doesn't it doesn't it 00:59 so i have a massive 50 off sale right 01:02 now on all my courses 01:04 i encourage you to check them out go to 01:07 my website dr shafali.com 01:09 hi joseph go to dr shafali.com and go to 01:12 courses 01:13 50 off also the doors to my coaching 01:17 institute 01:18 are officially open for my next cohort 01:21 starting in september 01:23 if you want to be a coach if you want to 01:25 do this work and help 01:26 humanity help people learn 01:29 how to do this work on yourself in a 01:31 deeper way if you're looking for a new 01:33 purpose 01:34 if you want to work with parents whether 01:36 you're a parent or not but you 01:38 understand the power of this work you 01:41 can 01:42 apply to my coaching institute and 01:46 become a certified conscious parenting 01:49 coach 01:49 i have people from all over the world i 01:52 have hundreds already certified doing 01:54 the work out there 01:56 it's a phenomenal community it's a 01:59 phenomenal program 02:00 it's five months online it'll change 02:03 your life 02:04 that's all i'm going to say about it if 02:06 you want to explore it go to my website 02:08 go to 02:10 institute and check it out i'm taking 02:13 applications right now 02:14 so go there apply there's a prerequisite 02:18 course 02:18 which is 50 off take it and 02:21 evolve and you will have a sense of 02:24 purpose 02:26 if you're feeling it in the now act on 02:28 it right now 02:29 okay so farzine patel says i love my 02:32 work as a coach 02:33 it's life-changing she's a coach so um 02:37 she's certified herself in my coaching 02:39 institute 02:40 so and we have hundreds of others 02:45 says my life has changed from reading 02:47 the book it has helped me with my 02:49 physical 02:50 health love from christina new york city 02:54 oh 02:54 that is awesome um 02:58 your book has been chosen for my book 03:00 club reading it for the second time 03:02 i love it okay guys so all my courses 50 03:05 off if you're interested in becoming a 03:07 conscious parenting coach 03:09 to have a new sense of purpose from your 03:11 home 03:12 go check out my institute and maybe 03:15 you'll be part of my next cohort 03:17 maybe okay hey honey 03:20 okay let's begin let's talk about love 03:23 and what it means 03:24 so when i was on the oprah show um 03:27 i think in 2016 i said 03:31 love without consciousness is 03:34 need possession and control 03:37 and she was like ah that's a tweetable 03:41 moment so 03:42 that stayed in my head otherwise i 03:43 always forget what i say so i remember 03:46 what i said because she made such a big 03:48 deal out of it but i think it's really 03:49 powerful 03:51 you know and that's when i began to 03:53 really 03:54 formulate my ideas around trance what i 03:56 call transcendent love 03:58 and all the other kinds of love which 04:00 shouldn't actually be called love 04:02 because they're not love they need 04:03 possession 04:04 and control so let's call it i was in 04:07 need 04:08 i was in possession i was in control aka 04:11 i was in attachment so i write about how 04:15 in my 04:16 in my story i began to realize 04:19 that until i began to awaken